10 Tips for a Day at the Beach with Kids

Nothing evokes a summer idyll like a lazy day spent at water’s edge. In Vermont, this means a lake or a pond, which means the water is as likely to be bordered by gravel or stones as sand, rather than the white sands a beach photo usually brings to mind. In any case, one thing we’ve learned in fifteen years of parenting is that while great memories can be created spending time at the beach, there are no guarantees that the idyll will stretch before you like the seemingly unending sands of Praia do Cassino. Being prepared and flexible can make the excursion more fun and maybe even more relaxing for everyone.

Tip 1: Be Shady
Make sure you have access to shade. Some people can contentedly spend a day in the sun, but most of us like a reprieve. If your planned destination doesn’t offer some natural shade, bring your own in the form of an umbrella or beach shelter. Very young children might nap if they can get out of the sun, and bigger kids will enjoy the rest out intense sunshine. A little shade, with hats and other sun protection, should make your day at the beach more pleasant.

Tip 2: Sand Toys
Toys are a nice addition to a day beside the water. A bucket and something to dig with will keep many children occupied for hours as they move sand and water around. Forms for castles or water wheels can make for some interesting experiments, but even simple things enamel cups or spades or toy cars can spark some imaginative play on the sand.

Tip 3: Active Toys
A few active toys that won’t blow away can be fun. A frisbee is just about perfect for the water or along the beach, because it is unlikely to be randomly carried away by the wind. A handy tip for a beach ball is to deflate it when it’s not “in play” so it’s less likely to blow away. If there’s room for it, kites are a lot of fun at the beach; there tends to be more wind and fewer overhead obstructions.

Tip 4: Have Fun
Make more memories by playing with your children. After you’ve hatted everyone and rubbed them with sunscreen and kept them from drowning and realized you can’t simultaneously read and monitor the children, you might as well surrender to the pleasures of digging. You can make moats and channels and give little lessons on water and sand. You can enjoy the quiet industry of playing beside your digging children.

Tip 5: Treasure Hunt
Be sure to bring something small to carry home new treasures. Most children will collect something from the day. One of mine prefers rocks, another likes dead marine life. A small jar respects their desire to remember the day with a souvenir while limiting the extent of their collections. Remember that some places have endangered plants or fragile ecosystems. Always observe rules about what rocks, shells, plants, or animals you may disturb and collect.

Tip 6: Sea Food
If there will be sand, plan food accordingly. Toddlers plus sand plus watermelon is not the easiest combination. Grapes are pretty doable when dealing with sand. You might want carefully wrapped sandwiches; you might avoid dips. The point here is to think of what challenges the day could bring and plan food accordingly.

Tip 7: Water
Bring lots of drinking water. Wind and sun dry everyone out, and everyone is much more grumpy and less cooperative when they’re thirsty. There’s a certain irony in this tip; being surrounded by water with none to drink can truly amp up the crankiness.

Tip 8: Writing
Did I say that? Aren’t we on summer vacation? Just hear me out! The beach is a fun place to practice writing. You and your child can put messages in the sand then watch the waves take them away. The ephemeral nature of this writing can be encouragin to a budding reader or writer. You can also use the sand to play a giant game of tic-tac-toe or make spirals and walk around them.

Tip 9: Reading
De rigueur for the adults, I know. Books and beaches go together like peanut butter and jellyfish. Or something like that. Bring a book or two with you. Your child might enjoy some down time in all the action of a beach, and a book is an easy way to offer it. A field guide to seashells can add another level of interest to any shells you find. And you might be able to enjoy your own book if everyone else settles into a quiet moment turning pages.

Tip 10: Be Like the Jellyfish
And last but not least, be flexible. We’ve had days at the beach that lasted under two hours and quick jaunts that stretched into five hours. Summer is a good time to indulge these whims. After all, it’s supposed to be fun. If it’s not, don’t force it.

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